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Outfit of the Day: Winter Neutrals for the Office

December 26, 2016

Packing for winter destinations can be a challenge. There is all the layers and bulk of the wonderful pieces that keep you warm. I'll be both traveling and hosting this holiday season. I like to pack light so I can enjoy traveling rather than lugging around heavy suitcases. It's especially important this month as I'll be on the go before turning around & immediately hosting (there's no way I'd have time to unpack a huge suitcase!) See my Tahoe packing list and traveling light tips for winter below.

Winter / Tahoe Packing List:

Wool Coat
Down Jacket
Wool Socks
Knit Cap
Leather Gloves
Wool Fedora
Sunglasses
Leather Backpack / Purse
Ankle Boots
Leather Sheep Lined Snow Boots
Snow Bibs
Leggings
Jeans
T-Shirts
Chunky Cashmere Cardigan
Velvet Button Up Shirt
Cashmere Top
Swing Top
Mountain Print Sweater
Large Cashmere Pashmina Scarf

Packing Light During Winter:

Pick a Color Scheme to Mix & Match: I like neutrals like black and white with one pop of color. That way I know I can mix and match pieces to create several outfits.
Plan Ahead: I plan an outfit for each day I'm on my trip-including what I'm wearing on the days I travel there and back. I also try on my outfits ahead of time to make sure they all fit still (my weight fluctuates regularly) and that the different "looks" work together. That way I know I won't over pack and bring extras I won't wear.
Pack Hard Working Clothes: Pack pieces that are versatile and you can wear several ways. My leggings are perfect for lounging around, wearing as PJs on cold nights, or layering under my snow bibs if it's really cold in the snow.
Choose High Quality Material, Over Bulk: This down coat in my packing list is super warm and high quality, without being bulky. I also like high quality materials like cashmere, leather, wool, tight knits, and silks as they are great for layering and keeping things cozy and warm, all the while packing well and not taking up a lot of precious space in your bag.
Wear Your Bulkiest Items There: I'm in Tahoe for a good part of the holidays and really need to have snow boots while here. However, they are big and heavy-not great for packing light. My solution is to wear my bulkier items on the day of travel to save space in my suitcase while still getting those necessary pieces to my final destination. On the day of traveling to Tahoe I wore my jeans, snow boots, wool coat, and felt fedora hat as they are the bulkiest items on my packing list and don't pack well shoved in a suitcase. Viola! Problem solved.

Holiday Table Styling

December 14, 2016

This post is for the hostess withOUT the mostess, the procrastinator (hello me), or the low key.

If you're having people over for Christmas or hosting a holiday dinner this year...have no fear! Rather than sweating the fancy schmancy details like floral arrangements (do you even own a vase???), napkin rings, or (heaven forbid) name cards, just use these easy tips for styling a simple, yet bold holiday tablescape. Your guests will be all, "This is amazing! How ever did you get Martha Stewart to do this?!" And you'll do your little happy dance in your head knowing you just styled the mess out of those cheap dishes you got in college! YOU - 1; MARTHA - 0! Take that overachievers!!!

Simple Holiday Table Styling Tips:

Centerpiece: This sets the scene, so even though this is easy breezy hosting it still shouldn't be skipped.

Option #1 - Produce: Pass on the floral arrangements and make a bold statement with bowls/platters/dishes of fresh fruits or vegetables (no creative skills required to fill a bowl with produce, unlike artfully arranging bouquets!). You may already have them on hand for cooking around the holidays and-unlike flowers-you can eat them afterwards! I use pomegranates as the giving of pomegranates, persimmons, or citrus is a Christmas tradition in Mediterranean culture, like my family's.

How - Color Palette: The closer you can stick to a color palette the bolder your styling will look. Learn more about picking a palette from this color wheel tutorial.

Analogous: For our holiday tablescape we used harmonious analogous and almost monochromatic color palette ranging from rich pomegranate reds to deep eggplant purples with merlot grapes, plums, avocado, and figs in between.
Complimentary/Contrasting: The most popular example of contrasting colors is Christmas' red and green (think red and green apples). This sort of palette is vibrant and dramatic.
Neutrals: Think soft colors from nature with shelled brown nuts, cotton white, and muted green artichokes.

How - Uniform: You don't need your grandmother's fine china to achieve this table decoration. Find uniformity with your centerpiece dishes (that doesn't mean that they need to be a part of a set or match). Ours are all from different sets but tie together with the white. You could also experiment with dishes that are different colors but the same size, or different colors and sizes but the same pattern/style. One example: different colored bowls/platters/plates of depression glass.

Option #2 - Candles: Never underestimate the drama of a candlelit dinner.

How - Types / Sizes: You can simply have 2-3 tapered candlesticks standing tall in the center in holders or a candelabra. Or group together several pillar candles of varying heights on a plate. Or go smaller in scale and use wine glasses or small glass containers to house votives or tealights.
How - Color: White is always the most classic candle wax color and ensures that if you have different kinds of candles they all go together, as opposed to discrepancies of hues with colored wax for candles from different brands or stores. If you do want to use colorful candles and have different colors group them together on a plate and tie a ribbon around them or create balance with each candle having the same uniform holder.

Option #3 - Nature: Greenery, leaves, feathers, pinecones, twigs/braches...the list goes on and on for what is available this time of year. Bonus: it is often free!

How - Balance + Display: Don't let nature take over your table. You can put pinecones or leaves in a clear vase or bowl. Branches or greenery can go in a tall vase or be laid down the center of the table with pinecones or leaves singularly spread throughout. Find balance and keep it minimal. It's meant to be easy!

Place Settings: This can be as casual or dressed up as you like.

Work With What You Have: If your only option is paper plates then fold the napkins fancy to elevate the look. Don't have enough matching dishware or a set for everyone? Mix and match the plates and bowls to make it fun and eclectic like here. Staying monochromatic with whites kept the tablescape looking pulled together-even though no two place settings were the same. Placemats or traditional chargers were forgotten to save space both physically and visually. As there were only three of the antique wire chargers the eclectic, mismatched theme continued. A large tart tin was found to make an even number and they were placed at different settings around the table.
How - Decor: Again, as casual or elegant as you need it to be. Open seating usually works best for my hostess style so I don't like using place cards. Rather, putting something like a piece of fruit (as seen here) on top of their plate or folded napkin is is super fast and simple, yet bold, way to decorate the setting. These also make for great conversation pieces at a dinner party. To top it all, you can send your guests home with their setting decor as a sweet and fun party favor!